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November 1st, 2009
Well I seem to have managed to find myself involved with yet another man who can't be as honest and loyal to me as I am to him. Not sure how I keep doing this as I would say I am actually quite a strong woman, considering what I've been through over the years so far.

Friends have described as being someone who only sees the good in others and places too much trust in people when I first met them. Thinking about it, I have to say there is truth in their comments. But then I'd hate to spend my life trying to double guess people's intentions whenever I meet someone new. I don't seem to get the balance right.

So here I am, again, looking to leave my boyfriend. Unfortunately, he has been my child's 'Daddy' and I know us splitting will cause huge stress. My child's sperm donor was a looser and I left him, being happy single and getting on with things, only my child was so much younger and didn't miss him, wasn't even aware of him not being around anymore. This time, it will create a huge gap! I am so angry with him for putting us all in this mess, as he had chances that were promptly broken by him.
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J3nnyuk
replied November 1st, 2009
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Has he spoken to you about this? said sorry etc or are you saying you have had enough and are leaving? or maybe you could have a talk see if it is worth sorting out...for your child as well as you...Jenny
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Seeks_Solace
replied November 3rd, 2009
Hi J3nnyuk,

I have spoken with him, is really quite a complicated situation. Coming from the family he comes from I am not all surprised by his attitude at times, but I am so seriously fed up now and don't see him ever changing, I just want out.

He is overly attentive at times, and says he'll do anything I want him to, but seems to miss the point completely! He's said sorry, has said he know he needs to sort himself out, but I believe he can't and at least, I need to be away from him while he does.

Have talked and talked, but not sure he is really getting it?
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J3nnyuk
replied November 3rd, 2009
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Then maybe leaving him at least until he has sorted himself out is what he needs...I did the same with my bf..i moved out to live with my friend and im still there now but me and my bf are back together and he treats me like a princess now...he is a totally changed guy...good luck...Jenny
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Seeks_Solace
replied November 3rd, 2009
The more I think about it, the more I think having some breathing space will do me good, and more importantly, my child.

Things are so tense at times, it's suffocating. I know he's trying to do what 'he' thinks is the right thing to do to show he loves us, but I feel smothered almost.

Sounds like it worked for you! More power to you! Smile

Thanks for sending on good luck!

SS
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J3nnyuk
replied November 3rd, 2009
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No problems hun am here if you want to talk...Jenny
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Seeks_Solace
replied November 6th, 2009
Well the good news is, we have thought about going to see someone to chat about our relationship etc...

Is a start, even if we do still split, we can stay friend's for our daughter's sake. Smile
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