Hi,
I have a new boyfriend and have encountered some problems that I've never had before. I just want to know if its normal or if they are symptoms of anything and whether I should get him to go to a doctors or not.
My first problem occurs during foreplay, he seems to be super sensitive. Im fairly confident with giving oral sex and have never had any complaints about it (had a number of short relationships and one long term relationship). But I seem to cause him pain every time (4 times!!!!!) becuase i 'suck too hard'....so obviosly every time i do it, ill reduce the preasure. And even with minnimal preasure it still hurts. I really feel its not normal.
Second thing ive noticed, is that his ejaculate is normal in colour (whiteish-clearish) but i dont think the texture is normal. It's an inconsistent texture with what appears to be lumpy, kind of stringy bits in it. (Similar to a girls discharge). I dont know if its not normal or if Ive just never noticed that cum is like that.
We have not had a direct convo about the sensitivity, Ive just hinted that ive never had this problem before nd i havent mentioned his ejaculate. Im scared he'll not want to talk to me about it because he is embarrased. HOwever, he may not see any of this as a problem. I dont think it hurts when he pees because he'd tell me as i have just suffered cystitus. And it doesnt hurt him wen he ejaculates or has sex.
Sorry for such a long question, didnt really know how to ask it!