Self-esteem and sex

it seems like the entire world is basing their lives off getting our self esteem up by getting someone in bed with us. or by letting other people ruin what we were meant to be to just enjoy ourselves for one hour when we have an entire life to live with what it brings. doing things like this just brings a whole mess of unwanted issues and problems. but they think its worth it to spread their legs and let the whole world in. Learn to make a difference people. dont do things purely out of selfishness and being weakhearted. maybe try to help the world get better instead of passing the disease you spread.