Hey there everybody;

I wanted to get some advice for the situation I'm in. Now I had be dating my now ex bf for about 3 months. We had a great start, but somewhere along the go we stumbled along a bump. It started with him insulting my sister without ever having met her or even talking to her really. After that time, It was really hard for my sister, and rest of family to like him. From that time, we got into more fights whenever I would see him. he would insult me, my family and just make me cry. When I would go over to his house he would just ask me to do all these different things for him, he would workout in his basement leaving me all by myself. Or on his computer doing his "reading" sometimes for like 1-2 hrs. Again I'd be by-myself. Just ignoring me, and taking advantage of my time, like I'd always be there or something. I shared intimacy with him, and he questioned me later about it. Throwing in my face about how he let it go of the fact that i didn't know how to properly please a man. How he gave up hes needs. Just really inapporpriate things. Just things you should never say to your gf. We got into alot of fights, he was constantly breaking up with me for no reason, then calling me hrs later to apologize. I went from being inlove with him to not wanting to be around him at all. Finally I decided that I no longer wanted to be with him and I broke it off. It was very hard because I love him (still do). But I was miserable and crying from everything he said. I asked him not to call my house or work or have his mother or father call (they have called my house and work previously) he ignored my wishes and called me anyways and got repeated hang ups. Then he just kept emailing me from annoymous email addresses. Finally the last email he admitted to his mistakes and seemed genuinely sorry for how he treated me, stating I am everything he could ever want in a gf, wife and mother to his future child(ren). How he wants to change etc. Now I know he has bad experiences in the past with females treating him poorly. But I did nothing that woul have lead him to such destructive behaviour (emotionally). I was wondering, If I should give him a final chance to see if he can change, or will he never change. I broke up with him some time ago, but he wont stop. I do still love him, I know thAT WITH time that will change. But I do believe in giving people 2nd chances (this would be hs 3rd). Is it too late, he has said some things to me about my family that just seem so unforgivable, but I don't know. Please I feel so lost.