| NightStar wrote: |
You don't need to be putting up with his rudeness, it is important when you enter a relationship that the bf gets along with your family and vise versa it makes life so much better when you can do things together as a family.
My husband's family likes me and always invites us to cookouts and such. I also go to see my sister and my husband gets along with my mother and sister.
You want someone that respects your family and you. |
I just wanted to say, everything everyone said I kind of already knew. Not trying to be a smart alic or anything but I just I needed to get more advice. As he sent me some mail, to my workplace actually. It was a psychological assessment, which states, that he has Narcissistic Personality Disorder, as well as a learning Disability. I couldn't believe it, the report was like 10 pages. As mentioned eariler I cut him off cold turkey and he just kept emailing me, calling my work etc. The calling has died down as well as the emailing. Since recieving the report last week, I emailed him to say I appreciated it, but that nothing has changed. I'm not sure how to approoach the fact that he has a mental illness, but I guess if I were to consider being with him (not that I am) he would have to get some kind of treatment or something, Am i right??? At this point I do not know I I love him anymore, I did to begin with when everything was great, but now I think I'm in that I just miss him stage. The only thing is right now I'm having some family issues (unrelated) and the first person I want to run to is him. Then I remember everything that has happened and I'm fine. So in the end he has some mental problems and I will be going to my first year of College next week, so he emailed me back stating If I truly loved him, I would stick by his side as he does what he needs to do. That we need to fix our relationship before I go off to school, because any chances of it being fixed once I start are too late. I just want to do my education and get into my career. Maybe meet somebody during school, who knows right??. That's where we stand, he wants me to call him. i am reluctant to do so. I realized yet again that emailing him in the first place was a silly mistake on my part. I only did because one of my friends told me to. So please, don't be too hard on me. I want to stay clear of him, any suggestions??? I always have this thought that, what if he got the help he needs...I just do not want to spend so much time waiting around, and then have nothing get resolved. I'm not waiting around now. If he asked me to, I would refuse, he asked me that once before. I know of a specific person that likes me, and everytime I come int contact with him, I become a bumbling idiot. LOL I want to persue this crush he has on me. I sort of feel bad though like I shouldn't feel like this. What is that about????????? Any suggestions on anything would be great.
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