Scared to Have Sex - P.E.

hey mate

i know how you feel, trust me. in all honesty, probably the best way to deal with it is to not make it such a big deal in your head. a very large part of PE is in your head. if you keep thinking you have a problem, then guess what happens...?
however its a bit like a chicken and the egg situation. you need to get your confidence back up. i've looked around and done some really intense research.

Though the best way to cure this problem is practice, you may find hope in alternatives, such as pills or sprays. The pills they use to help this issue are used as anti-depressants and may help you not feel as good of sensations, thus taking you longer to ejaculate.

If you are quick to erection, even after ejaculating, try masterbating before sex, then you will last a little longer.

When my husband and I were in high school, he use to have a little bit of the same problem, so I understand it can be frustrating. But, if you're too worried you may not get your partner off before you bust, try some extra foreplay, as most women do not get orgasms during sex, because of the lack of friskiness in the beginning.

I know you don't want sympathy (can't help it, I'm a woman), but if your girlfriend loved you, she would have worked through this problem with you, instead of cheating on you. My husband and I had to work for a little while on it, before we both got to a point where we were satisfied, but that's what you're suppose to do in a relationship.

I hope this helps you in some way. Good Luck

i have the same problem so i approached it from a different angle. i stop trying to work on my PE and i found a way to keep it hard and me going after the first ejaculation. i use natural pills and the one that has been working for me is endurnz go on their website and read some of the reviews.
Enjoy

Are you wearing a condom? Some men find condoms to be helpful in reducing the sensation that triggers them so quickly.

Welcome to our forum where we are discussing the problem with premature ejaculation: http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic86215. html

i completely sympathise with you.

I am trying to start reverse kegel exercises.

when i do reverse kegels during masturbation it holds off the need to cum.

reverse kegel is the same muscle that you use to push out piss faster.

I am in the same boat. I dont want to get in a relationship with a woman till i have this problem sorted.

i am fourteen and my boyfriend is seventeen and we wanna take it to the next step shud we have sex? wat if im inexperienced? we are madly in love and have been going out for one year and five months and we wanna have it soon plz help me!

Have you tried masturbating before having sex?

side note:
Condoms do not protect against all STDs. There is something called HPV which affect women only. It very rarely has any affect on men. It is a type of herpes. It can either cause warts or cancer in, on or around the vagina and/or anus. SO brybry14, PLEASE consider waiting to have to sex until the two of you can walk into a clinic and get tested before doing anything. THANK YOU!