Ok so my husband had yolksack seminoma testicular cancer three years ago. He went in for surgery the day after our first date, got it all taken out and a couple months later the week before his 30th he was told that the cancer came back and was in his lungs (hes a smoker) so he went in for chemo, he made deposits at the sperm bank and they have been there since the chemo.
We got married Sept 2010 and we just bought a house....now its time for babies, but anytime it gets brought up he either shy's away, changes the subject or plain out ignores...his mother wants grandbabies like now and I am nearing 31 so I am in my prime. He said we can start trying after his birthday which is in March but something tells me that he is not wanting to because he is scared. (He has a tendancy to post pone things and just not do whatever it is because he is scared of the outcome or the what if's) He would be a wonderful father I see it when he interacts with the nieces and nephews...but would his fear be coming from.
The chance of being infertile?,anytime I ask him to go get tested he puts it off till the next time... Growing up? Mixture of both?
I know this is a mens forum but any advice would be awesome at this point.