last night i thought i was home by myself so after i got out of the shower i thought i would just walk to my room. sometime while i was in the bathroom my cousin and her friend came home and on my way to my room they saw me. i tried to play it off like it was no big deal but i got an erection and i think they saw it. they are 14 and im really embarassed, i feel wierd around my cousin now. should i talk to her about it?
no, don't talk to her about it. just let it die. if she brings it up, that means she wants to talk to YOU about it. otherwise, just let it die. it's not that big of a deal, and for you to bring it up just puts you in the perv factor.
just my 2 cents worth
If you don't make a big deal of it, she won't either. I'd suggest that you get comfortable with your own body's reactions...sometimes you can't control an erection, especially when you're young and lack experience.
Agree with others on this one. Don't bring it up, just let it go. I've seen my cousins naked at times, and once my uncle saw me naked as I came out of the shower (I was 17 at the time and he saw me full frontal nude) - it was awkward but neither one of us ever mentioned it and I, for one, felt better that it was left alone.