Me and my boyfriend have just started getting kinda sexual..not having sex, but playing around. he's fingered me about three times now. the first time, everything was fine, i was a little sore the next day, but that was it. the second time, i had a tiny bit of bleeding, but that was expected. Last night however, we were pretty excited and i think he might have gotten a little rough..although it didn't hurt at the time. about five minutes after he was done (and it pretty much felt the same as the other two times, although i didn't get as excited) i got up and felt something dripping down my leg. i thought it was just the normal vaginal lubrication/from orgasm, but when i brought my hand up i realized it was blood. i thought he had just stretched my hymen more than the last time..he got me a towel and i wiped myself, but it was more blood than the last time i bled. i ended up sitting on the towel for a few hours, during which it slowed down immensely-this was about 3:30 in the morning. when i went back to my room i put a pad on and went to bed...i didn't really feel sore or anything, it hurt more the first and second time then it does now.
..i felt kinda dizzy and weak, i guess from the blood loss, it seemed like more than it should have been.
so now, i've pretty much stopped bleeding, but only because i've been i bed all day trying to prevent rubbing so it can heal but when i go to the bathroom, it's starts bleeding , but only a little, then when i lay back down in bed it stops...like only blood when i wipe. i was reading other posts, and they said that bleeding for a day or two is normal, so i'm not too worried, and i'm not dizzy anymore, but the last time i went to bathroom, it seemed to look a little more like menstrual blood...i also was feeling a little crampy today...so i was wondering i guess if i should be really worried about this and if he could have started my period...although it is much lighter than when i have my period, the only thing that made me think it might be is because there were some small globs, like when i get my period..but the rest of the blood seems just like normal thin blood.
also..i'm on the pill-been on it for about 7 months with no problems..and i just had my period last week..last saturday was the last day of it.