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Me and my boyfriend have just started getting kinda sexual..not having sex, but playing around. he's fingered me about three times now. the first time, everything was fine, i was a little sore the next day, but that was it. the second time, i had a tiny bit of bleeding, but that was expected. Last night however, we were pretty excited and i think he might have gotten a little rough..although it didn't hurt at the time. about five minutes after he was done (and it pretty much felt the same as the other two times, although i didn't get as excited) i got up and felt something dripping down my leg. i thought it was just the normal vaginal lubrication/from orgasm, but when i brought my hand up i realized it was blood. i thought he had just stretched my hymen more than the last time..he got me a towel and i wiped myself, but it was more blood than the last time i bled. i ended up sitting on the towel for a few hours, during which it slowed down immensely-this was about 3:30 in the morning. when i went back to my room i put a pad on and went to bed...i didn't really feel sore or anything, it hurt more the first and second time then it does now.
..i felt kinda dizzy and weak, i guess from the blood loss, it seemed like more than it should have been.
so now, i've pretty much stopped bleeding, but only because i've been i bed all day trying to prevent rubbing so it can heal but when i go to the bathroom, it's starts bleeding , but only a little, then when i lay back down in bed it stops...like only blood when i wipe. i was reading other posts, and they said that bleeding for a day or two is normal, so i'm not too worried, and i'm not dizzy anymore, but the last time i went to bathroom, it seemed to look a little more like menstrual blood...i also was feeling a little crampy today...so i was wondering i guess if i should be really worried about this and if he could have started my period...although it is much lighter than when i have my period, the only thing that made me think it might be is because there were some small globs, like when i get my period..but the rest of the blood seems just like normal thin blood.
also..i'm on the pill-been on it for about 7 months with no problems..and i just had my period last week..last saturday was the last day of it.
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replied April 5th, 2008
hey my name is joy

im still a virgin im 24 i live in florida

my uterus is enlarged to the size of a girl being 3months pregant
is there any way i can become pregant with my uterus being enlarged? even though im still a virgin? i look like im pregant.i have all the signs of being pregant
im so scared.
me and my fiance dont knowwhat to think;
im scared;
im 24

we have done blood tests we have done pregancy test of course im not pregant .im a virgin so every test says no;

please write me back
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replied April 6th, 2008
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joy
joy2425nfla20092009 wrote:
hey my name is joy

im still a virgin im 24 i live in florida

my uterus is enlarged to the size of a girl being 3months pregant
is there any way i can become pregant with my uterus being enlarged? even though im still a virgin? i look like im pregant.i have all the signs of being pregant
im so scared.
me and my fiance dont knowwhat to think;
im scared;
im 24

we have done blood tests we have done pregancy test of course im not pregant .im a virgin so every test says no;

please write me back


you should really start a new topic instead of commenting on someone elses topic. if ur on someones topic page, there will be a "new topic" button on the upper left hand corner of the screen. you'll get more responses that way.
im only 17, i dont have any advice about your situation, but i hope this helps you get some! good luck!
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replied April 20th, 2009
Same kind of thing happened to me.
I started bleeding once when my boyfriend fingered me. I thought he might have stretched me enough to where it might have caused some kind of cut O.o After a while, it stopped bleeding. And I asked him if we could avoid doing anything sexual for a while. After a month or so, I was fine. No bleeding. He fingered me again and I didn't bleed. I just gave it time to "heal" in case something did happen. I mean, I couldn't know FOR SURE if something was really wrong, but I'm fine now.

That's the best advice I got is to just lay off of some stuff for a while.
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replied August 2nd, 2009
Cherry popped
The exact same thing happened to me as it did to "littlescared", i am on the pill so when i started bleeding the next morning i was very confused. I am still a virgin and i already had my period this month, so i am wondering...how long can bleeding from popping your cherry last?
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replied October 22nd, 2009
when i lost my virginity i bled lightly for maybe half a day or the whole day, im 18 and i thought i was getting my period bc it was the morning after and i woke up went and peed and saw that i was bleeding so i put a tampon in and my friend said no it's bc he broke your hymen so your bleeding... when i went to the gyno he told me that everyone bleeds a certain amount and i only bleed a real little amount so it was barely anything ... when i had sex the first time i barely bled at all
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replied September 16th, 2012
SO MY CHERRY HAS BEEN POPPED???
Ok so I had the same EXPERENCE tht "littlescared" had and apparently another.. So it's because of the hymen.. I was worried he like did something to my insides... >.< and I just was rlly scared. I'm younger then 18 & I have scheduled oppentments with the gyno.. so idk what to say or tell anyone? I don't want my parents finding out because I don't think they'd let me see him again.. But it's whatever. <3 I love him.
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