Hi there!
So, I am seeing a guy I went to elementary school with. I hadn't seen him since we were 10 or 12. We're both 22 now. We use to play on a hockey team together and we were best buds growing up.
He's really wonderful! He's outgoing, get's along with everyone, he's very caring and profound, no body decent would dislike him. He's also VERY good-looking (not that that's relevant)
Anyhow, we have been dating for just over 5 months now (no big deal, right?) Well, we both broke up with our ex's only a few weeks before we started seeing eachother (uh-oh) I constantly assured him that i'd rather be friends if I was infact a re-bound, he assured me I was not. I trusted him and dove in a new relationship (my first BIG mistake).
So, my much needed opinions are based on the question "What's ging on between him and his ex?"
He still has her photos on facebook with them two kissing and all. Not listed as in a relationship with anyone.. (Hello! What about me?)
His dad and her dad play in a band together so they sometimes see eachother. My bf's dad had a party one night with his band (So his ex was there) and she was chasing him with squirt guns and flirting and dragging him behind the house etc. I natuarally would have beat the $#! out of both of them, but 1. (I need not be so immature anymore) and 2. (It was a giant family party) Anyway, so I brought this up and said "I understand you want to be friends with her still, and that was completely fine by me until all that happened" In return, nothing.
My bf has now been invited by her to her cottage 'cause another family band thing, I was blown out-of-the-water when he mentioned this. what do think i'm gonna feel? So, I wasn't invited, he's gonna spend the night there in a tent (With the ex or without? Who knows..)
On facebook he tells me she messsages him saying "I miss you" and "Lindsay has you pussywhipped" etc.
Why does he tell me this and then encourage he by playing with her and going out with her etc?
Aside from that he's the type that hates to say no in case someone is hurt, but he hurts me in the process of protecting her...
What should I do?
Am I being jealous?
