2 points for you.
1) maybe you're coming across as too needy.
2) maybe you need to get a boyfriend who appreciates you and gives you what you want.

not to be cruel or mean (at all)...it just doesn't sound like he's your heart's match.

jasmine

Yea, my last girlfriend was like that. It turned out she wasn't happy and in the end I had to end it between us so she could be happy. If things dont change, I think maybe you need to move on. Thats what I'm doing

thanks guys we used to be so close thats why im just really disapointed i guess and we are working on some things

Well at the moment me and my ex are in a rough spot. I miss the relationship, and I kinda miss her but I don't want ot be with her so I've been avoiding contact recently and its been going well but I said she can call or talk to me if she has problems. Which she does do so its not too bad but I know she wnats more form me and I can't give it to her.

But I'm doing ok, hope you are aswell horselover.

I love horses also XD

Its also been said that when people feel 'comfortable' in relationships the first thing that usually stops is the kissing. My bf and I do the pecks and we're ok with it. It doesn't mean we love each other less. We usually just say "gimme a kiss" or "kiss me" and that is our way of hinting we want a REAL kiss.

ok thanks yeah my mom said the same thing pinkflyingcow lol

Being a guy, I know that usually guys just speak their mind and don't do much of the profound hinting and stuff like women do. However, there are some cases I've heard of where the guy is like that. Maybe he really is just waiting for you to break up with him so that he doesn't have to be the bad guy, even though that's really what he wants. Just a thought.

Being a guy, I know that usually guys just speak their mind and don't do much of the profound hinting and stuff like women do. However, there are some cases I've heard of where the guy is like that. Maybe he really is just waiting for you to break up with him so that he doesn't have to be the bad guy, even though that's really what he wants. Just a thought.

i had the same problem,my boyfrind used to for 1 and half years kiss me ,sleepver many nights,hold my hand and spend a lt of time but things changed slowly and he never even took my hand once a week,he used to sleepover regularly on weekends but even that for the last few months only when i asked him to come he would..i found it really srange and i was hurt..i know you cant be mushy all the time..but not even a small peck ,even when he came over weekends,he never tried to kiss me on my cheek or anythin it was sad...im not sure why..i guess he lost interest or something