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Q: relationship ready for marriage ?
asked by: babygirl24 on May 25th, 2008
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how do you know when your ready for marrige,
i feel like im ready the guy im wit is super nice
and i trust him.but im young i honestly dont want
to wait and i have been wit him for only six months.
im scared to tell my mom because honestly money
wise were not ready.but love wise and commentment wise
we both are.the scary thing though my firend try to make it
sink into me that hes not always going to be commented and
hell cheat on me.(because of their past experince).and most
guy cheat on thier girls in high schol.so it kinda does get to me
will comment back please for advice.
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Jakesterx
replied on January 14th, 2009
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You've heard this before and you are going to hear this again. You are way too young to even consider marriage. I take it from your post you are still hin high school. You should nto even consider marriage until you are out of high school and can become financially and emoitionaly independent. Trust me - been there done that. You are going to hear this alot " you are too young". If you hear it once, you can ignore it, if you hear it twice, you better listen, if you hear it three times and more, it's the truth. Also, 6 months is not enough time to really get to know if someone is marriage material or not. Give it a couple years.
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worrywart01
replied on January 16th, 2009
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ooo man...i agree..if you're still in high school you are definitely TOO YOUNG...first of all..let me say..i know 6 months may seem like an enternity in high school..but 6 months is nothing hunny...things change..people change ESPECIALLY the more you get to know them...i've been with my boyfriend now for 2 1/2 years..i was head over heels in love with him at 4 months and he felt the same way..but let me tell you, as much as i thought i knew him..i sure had ALOT more to find out about him...lets just say we've had our ups and downs in the 2 1/2 years and i still love him dearly but i thought i knew everything about him after 6 months..no way...it takes time to REALLY figure out how someone works...i think now after 2 1/2 years its safe to say that i know what i'm getting if we ever did get married..but you should definitely wait..you have your entire life ahead of you..and if its meant to be and you two stay together even when you get out of high school and make it through college then more power to you, but you got a long road ahead of you, dont get ahead of yourself!
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