i was just curious if anyone else has a boyfriend/husband/partner that they are having problems communicating with. i have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years (lived together for one) and now im 19 weeks pregnant. unplanned of course. im 27 and hes 29. he has a nine year old daughter so i know it isnt first time dad jitters. we talked about having kids but obviously not this soon and even when we talked of it before, i always felt that he just said he wanted them because i always said i did (though not untill my 30s). he has said over and over that he is excited and happy but without sincerity. every now and then he will put his hand on my stomach and hold it there for all of 5 seconds. every time i talk about the baby he really has nothing to say or add to the conversation. its like im talking to myself. i feel so alone most the time. and im so worried that once the baby gets here he wont bond. i always thought of pregnancy as the way it is in the movies. where couples get closer together. and in a way, it is kind of like that. i love my boyfriend more than i did before because of this miracle i can feel rolling around in my belly! i get so emotional about it because when i think of this child, i think of all the love weve had for each other. how this little one is a little bit of both of us and all of our love. we created life. its special. its amazing. and all the while i feel so blessed....silence from the other end. is anyone else going through this or has anyone been through this before? im so scared. anyone? is this normal for a man?