Hi my name is Yvette. I have been with my boyfriend Micheal for two years now. I knew him as a friend for a year before going out with him, I started the realthionship with another man in my life named Angel so I practically cheated. This went on for about 6 months till they both found out. My current boyfrind Micheal was the guy on side. I was just confused of being in love with two men at the same time or maybe just a simple crush. Then they found out and they were both very upset. I realized who I wanted to be with I ended up staying with my frind Micheal and now my current boyfriend. We have been together for two years but now we always fight and he gets so jelous he constantly checks my phone,and is deprresd he syas it is my fault. Micheal has now entered the point where he uses meth, and the same thing comes out his mouth, "it is your fualt I am like this." I feel bad for being with these two men at the same time but I love my currnent boyfriend, and I try showing it.
You seem to be in a situation ...It would be good to show michael to a psychiatrist ,he needs some sessions with him to come out of depression..You have to be more tolerant towards his habit of checking on you;maybe he will relize your teue love if you can hold him for long...
you need to decide witch one you want fast before you lose them both, also if you really love michael then youll be the strong girlfreind that he needs to get him off meth and help lead him to a more positive life style, for him and for your relationship, its not easy, and you cant expect him to change over night, and dont be controling he doesnt need a mom he needs a strong woman in his life. Good luck hope this helps.
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