I will get to the point cause this can be a little long. My girlfriend had a baby with a guy who was kind of my friend. Last year they broke up cause he cheated on her with many other women,treated her like garbage and used her for all her money and left her with a almost newborn baby all by her self. I had lost contact with the for almost 6 month and i started to date her thing where going relatively well and i enjoyed having a baby around and i wanted to tone down my party life a bit and one thing led to another and we got serious. when he found out we where dating he became aggressive towards her and me well the (dead beat sperm donor) was never around for the baby so i chose to take the responsibility of taking care of the child as a second parent. he threaten me and my girlfriend numerous times and controls her he has a way of doing it so she does everything he wants.and no mater what anyone says to her there is nothing we can do another problem is i hate my work i am not happy but i try to make the best of it . a couple month ago we found out we where pregnant a that where everything got worse i know she has a hormone imbalance but the ex is still in the picture and she does everything for him he treats her bad does not pay child support and only wants to see the baby when he wants or convenient for him if she tells him no she cant he freaks and insults her and does anything to get it. I am scared she will loose the second baby and it is putting a strain on our relationship she hurts me constantly insults me says she loves me but i can feel otherwise she told me she needs me to stay and wants me to stay but i know the way she is acting is not like her cause the issue started when he found out she was pregnant he told her to get an abortion or he would punch her in the stomach now i want to put this guy badly in his place but the type of narcissist/controlling behavior. Would do nothing

i feel the way i have been treated by her is unfair she said she is sorry but does it all over
she tells me i am unattractive to her and denies it
insults me
we get into fights and these days is don't know what to do i love her but more and more time is going i am getting distant
am at the point i wished i didn't get pregnant with her our relationship is falling quick and i am almost ready to walk out the door