Myself and my wife has been trying to get a baby for about 7 months now. It seems not working. We both are not very good eaters and i dont think it should be a problem. But i get good erection and leave sperms. But unfortunately i use to masturbate a lot after my 22 yrs old. I have never done masturbating before. But my heredity has no problems in conceiving nor my wife. Right now am taking a stress tablet suggested by my doctor to get away my stomach pain also he mentioned i get lot of sperms. As he told, i get unusually lot of sperms but it takes a unusual lengthy time too. My wife is kinda showing her desperation and she wants a baby. It is giving me little pressure so when i have sex with her am not able to concentrate on that much. It seems like she is expecting me to leave my sperms soon. I am helpless. Looking forward to hear from you doctors and as well as people who suffered with this same issue. Thanks in advance!
one suggestion is that you wife should buy a ovulation kit, that way she will know when is a good time to have sex and conceive. if you do it this way you have a higher change.
you have to tell you wife to relax, stress can delay her period, yall have plenty of time to conceive. pressure isnt good.
u need 2 relax. stress can play a part in not conceiving. make sex fun again, massage each other with nice oils etc. u have only been trying 7months. i know that seems like an age 4 u but really only 60% of couples trying will hav conceived after 6 months, 75% after 9months, 80% within a year and 90% within 18months. good luck
I totally agree with maybebaby3... When We were trying for baby#2 i thought about it all the time and stressed out.. and it was making the relationship between my husband like sex was a chore well you cant let it get like that.. Finally I Was Likt I Am Not Going To TRy I Am Going With the Fol And I Tryed Not To Think About It All The Time.. And Guess What It Happend.. I Was Shocked.. It Will Deff. Happen When It Ment To Just Dont Give Up.. Good Luck With Everything And I Hope You Guys Get preggo soon
I dont know, i sent a private message to maybebaby3 but i never got response. i thought i could post it here. if possible pls respond back ... you too luvbeingamommy23. thanks for your concern,, but here are my doubts...
"the problem is, for the past 1 or 2 weeks, i have been getting mood but when we start having sex, i really lose temper and even if i have temper it takes very unusual time to release my sperms. infact in the last 3 time when we had sex i was able to release only one time and other two times it's failed. i couldn't complete it at all. but am sure my wife is not tempting me well and also, am keep thinking about my wife's desperation. it really sucks. we are just 30 & 24 yrs old. i dont know how to come across this situation."