Reducing hip width ?

I have wide hips in comparison to the rest of my body and my husband ooints it out all the time now especially since I just had a child and it got wider than before, and now none of my pants fit me! They go up until the hips and then its impossible to pull them up further!! I started going to the gym, and I know I can lose weight, but it wont reduce my hip width.
I know that there are procedures that rearrange or shave bones in the toes or other parts of the body, so I would like to know if this exists for the HIPS? Please help, it really looks abnormal!