I've never posted on here before..so im a bit nervous.

I am 19 years old and I have been with the same guy for about 2 years now. Unfortunately while I was away at school, I got pretty drunk with my friends one night and a lack of communication between myself and them ended me up in a room alone with an old high school boyfriend. He claimed to me afterward that he had been tested and was clean.

It has been over a month now and I have developed two bumps on my vagina, they are on the skin surrounding the vagina (not actually on it) one bump is quite a bit larger then the other the big one is about pea sized and is pretty sore. the smaller one is not sore or painful and looks to me more like a zit or pimple it has a whitish looking head.

the bigger bump was my concern it is flesh colored not white, just a little red. I at first thought it is possibly an ingrown hair, so i soaked it for a while and then i noticed a black hair sticking out of the bump so I plucked it,of course that was a bit painful but now about a half hour later it does not feel as painful as before and swelling seems to have gone down. Was this just an ingrown hair and have a fixed it?