Ending a Relationship Forum - Realationship in trouble

I am so unhappy in my relationship. I fight with him all the time about stupid little things. He blames me for not being the person I used to be. It is nothing but crazy. I have been with him about 11 years and have an engagement ring. I have a feeling he is cheating on me. I have some evidence but it is not rock solid. I also confronted him about it and the evidence was dismissed. This is the evidence:I happened to get some emails and photos of some naked girl and a letter of what they happened to do together. They were sent from my fiances email address. He claims a hacker got into his email. Weird messages were sent to a friend of his too. I saw them and yet I just do not know what to believe. I no longer trust him. I wish I could belive him and he was nowhere in the pics. Is it just a joke? I am really hurt by this and can not let it go. We are having other problems too. He is distant and gets a lot of cell call lately. I think he is not loyal. Help..... I can not do this anymore. I would also like some break up adviseor any opinions. Thank you

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Fairy Godmother

replied on August 29th, 2008

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RUN < RUN <RUN

Here's Your Sign. Run as fast as your little legs will carry you. Trust makes a relationship and when that trust is broken, after 11 years...I'd stay throw in the towel. You deserve way more and are not obviously getting it. Hacker my ass....the cell phoens calls alone.......if you want real proof, wait til he's asleep and check his phone records.....recent incomng and out going calls..........I would not waste my time, I'd be packed up and gone! Too many other wonderful guys out htere who would appreciate you! You asked. I'm telling what I think!

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zigemyster

replied on August 29th, 2008

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Fairy Godmother has spoken, therefore I would do as she says.

Trust is a big factor in any relationship and if you can't trust him and you continue to believe his stories, excuse after excuse...he will continue to betray you and feed you lie after lie. I seriously doubt a hacker did that. Why would someone target him or his friend?

He may try to keep you from leaving, don't listen to him...you deserve so much better and you have lost 11 years of trust and I would not give him one more minute of you to manipulate...his loss, your gain (freedom and self respect)

Listen to your instincts, slam the door behind you and don't look back. Be strong.

~Zig

Users who thank zigemyster for this post: Fairy Godmother annie3210

Fairy Godmother

replied on August 30th, 2008

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Hear Hear

Thank you Zig, adding you to my "FRIENDS" contact immdeiately. I have read some of your post and you are on the $ Girlfriend!

zigemyster

replied on August 31st, 2008

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Well Thank You Fairy*Godmother. I'll add you as well. I'm sure our paths will cross again & again Smile

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