i have talked to this girl, and she has decided against getting pregnant now at 14 years of age.
we talked about why she wants a baby now so badly, and we have both come to the conclusion that it is because of the fact that she had an abortion and is not feeling guilty for doing so.
i talked to her for quite some time, and she has decided to share that info with her parents, and not get pregnant now. hopefully she seeks out help from a counsellor as to how she is feeling from aborting.
It must have been alot to go through..hiding an abortion from family..that couldn't have been an easy thing for a 14 yr old to have gone through.
and i think the thing with angelina..i think the reason why she said shes a bad role model, is not because she can take care of her own kids, but because she pops out one after the other making it seem like no big deal to those who are younger and wanting, trying planning to have kids. they see angie poping out twins adopting etc. and they think it isnt as hard as people say..just thinking out loud..