I know this is going to sound stupid but... I'm 24 and just lost my virginity about 3 years ago and about a year of that, I stayed single breaking up with the guy I slept with. I can't say that my ex or my current bf ever gave me an oragasm by oral/touching, and rarely during intercourse. My first, he was more of too worried about getting himself off, and made me felt as if he didn't respected me in a lot of ways and like he was comparing me to his others but never exactly said that.. & that didn't help with everything. But I am with someone new and when I am making out with my BF (of 9 months), my mind isn't about only "sex", its like I space out into worrying if I'm doing the right thing, if he finds me attractive or something that I know I shouldn't be thinking of during this time. So how would I go about putting my mind at ease when making out so I can get into it? He is older then me, and have been with 3 other people but have not done much more then what I have. So we're experimenting things that are really exciting when we "talk" about doing things together but when we start doing it, I can't seem to get "into" it. Is there something wrong with me? Of course, he doesn't know this because I know or have heard stories how Guys take offend about there ego and can't get a girl stay turned on. although i do not FAKE them, that's something I have never done.