hello Dr.
I wanted to ask you about anal sex I really want to know its disadvatanges overall to the man and women in genral well I want to know specifi things like other than the known diseases such as HIV, like for example I'am really concerned about what will happen for the women after many time having anal sex because i really got confused from many peoples opinion some say it is bad for the women because she will not have control over her urinary system and such things and also is it bad to cum in her butt? I mean is there any disadvantages from cuming in her?
As for the man what are the disadvantages for the man? and ithe couple are both clean and free of diseases is there any %1 harm to not use a condom?
last but not least if there are advanatges for anal sex please list them for me.

thanks for reading my message and taking it into considiration....