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3 questions for woman Posted: 05-12-08 08:20am
I'll assume i need a woman to answer this
question since i am a guy and can't figure
it out...
My girlfriend is the love of my life.
we've been together for almost 4 years
now. hooray.
but i've always known her to be a
really... mm, "aroused" girl. even before
i would let her do anything sexual to me,
she would constantly convince me to do
something sexual for her (before we ever
had sex).
all i really have to do is bump into her
the right way and she will get in the
mood.
Question 1- but she's always claimed she
doesn't masturbate at all, only like once
in a blue moon. it just seems confusing to
me, because i know its not 100% of just a
connection thing for her, sometimes she
just gets aroused and needs (or atleast
seems to need) to get pleasured.
Question 2- Lately though (fo about 2
months) she also seems very unsexual. i do
everything she wants (in a sexual sense)
and she loves it while it's happening but
it seems to be very difficult to get her
in the mood lately.
im thinking i should stop having sex with
her for a long while to get her to want it
more... or will that just get her used to
not being sexual?
Question 3- Just curious... i've heard the
clitoris has over 2 times the nerves any
sexual organ on a guy has, so it would
hurt twice as much for a girl to get hit
there. Girls seem to be thrilled to see a
guy get kicked there because it's claimed
to hurt (i like it, honestly. so i dont
think it hurts. its a weird feeling ill
admit, but i like it). so why isn't it
funny to see a girl kicked between the
legs for woman, even though it's
scientifically proven to hurt over twice
as much?
(actually i know a few girls who seem
greatly amused by it... which i think is
kinda cool in a unique way, ha)
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Rosie H
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Posted: 05-12-08 15:48pm
My first question would be what does rape
have to with this????? Just curious.
I think people rape to feel dominant, in
control, powerful. And some just get off
on others pain...I really do not know. It
definately takes a really disturbed person
to do that to another, man or woman.
Not sure what the 1st question was....
Question 2. Since you have been together
so long I think you should ask her why
shes not as interested anymore. There is
something going on emotionally and
mentally with her thats prevernting her
from wanting sex. SO I think you should
try to help her and be there for her, not
try to make her want it more or miss sex.
I think if you did that you would get a
very negative reaction.
And question 3----i really dont know what
to say..lol
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mominashoe
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Posted: 05-12-08 15:55pm
I didn't read your post, but I voted.
Passion isn't about the sex. It's about
the violence and domination.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-13-08 11:25am
Question 1: Either she genuinely does not
masturbate or she just isn't comfortable
talking about it yet. It took me a long
time to admit that I would masturbate, and
even longer to actually admit how often. I
guess it's one thing for me to physically
be sexual, and its a whole different thing
to actually talk about just how sexual I
am. I still have a hard time talking about
things.
Question 2: Why would just up and taking
sex away help? I just recall you posting
something about how you wish women would
say what they mean. Put up or shut up ; talk to
your girlfriend about it! Maybe she's
stressed about something? Is she on a new
birth control or medication? Working
often? Don't just up and stop being
physically involved for awhile, you'll
leave her guessing at what she could have
done wrong and confused. She might not
even realize she's being less sexual. Long
story short, when something isn't right in
a relationship in any way, then talk about
it openly!
Question 3: If a guy laughed at me for
being kicked in the clitoris, I would kick
him in the nuts. I suppose the other
reason is because it rarely happens, or
girls don't admit it. It's happened to me
but I'm not about to scream, "Ah geez,
straight shot to the clit!" and roll
around in pain. Women are more graceful
about it. You're friends kick each other
in the clit? I'll punch a girl in the
boob, but never would I kick a girl
between the legs. haha
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; talk to
your girlfriend about it! Maybe she's
stressed about something? Is she on a new
birth control or medication? Working
often? Don't just up and stop being
physically involved for awhile, you'll
leave her guessing at what she could have
done wrong and confused. She might not
even realize she's being less sexual. Long
story short, when something isn't right in
a relationship in any way, then talk about
it openly!
