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Q: psycho abusive boyfriend

asked by: missjen on May 28th, 2008

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i am 17 yrs. old
i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years but the longer i am with him the more crazy he gets. it got to the point where i cant talk to ANY guys or even look. when im with his friends i have to look at the ground!
i really want to break up with him but hes threatening me.
a couple of months ago i sent him some private pictures of me and he never deleted them. now whenever i tell him i want to end it he tells me he will show my parents and all my friends.
i got accepted into a university out of town and he doesnt want me living there. he wants me to come home everday. the school is over an hour away and gas is not cheap. he forces me to do things i dont want to do and i hate it. i really want him out of my life but i dont know how to do it without him showing my pictures to anybody. hes also started hitting me recently whenever i dont do something. hes ruined every happy event for me even my own prom. i want to cal the cops but i dont know what to tell them. he even said if i cal the cops one day that not even a restraining order will keep him away from hurting me!
i really want some help
i hate living like this
but i really dont want my parents to be disappointed. if they find out they might not let me go to that university.

any advice would help
thank you

Crying or Very sad

Replies(2)

Fairy Godmother

replied on May 28th, 2008

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Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*Godmother

Hey, I am here............wish I were there I would come get you and get you out of this situation. Please PM me if you'd rather.....the pictures, are they photos or on his phone or what? Can you get your hands on them? You do need to get away from this situation and FAST. This has gotten out of hand and he sounds like a control freak....................freak putting the word mildly. Can you not talk to your parents? I'd want you too if you were my daughter. She turn 25 this year.......and I'd want her to know she can always come to me. PM me if you'd rather not publicize this!

harmony1

replied on May 30th, 2008

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You need to get out of this relationship. i think deep down you know this.
He has got problems. MAJOR problems. I was in abusive relationship when I was about your age. The first six months were great. then he started getting all weird,thinking I was flirting with his mates, thinking I was going out to meet guys. He started hitting me too. The thing is that with guys like that,it doesn't change unless he gets help and with you being there chances are he won't. After i left him he went out with this other girl.She was fiesty and this made it worse. He hit her with a baseball bat once and broke her nose. She had kids to him. In the end she had to escape and go to a womens shelter so he couldn't find her. Unfortunately she left her son there (it's a long story)and she's never been able to get him back. You're boyfriend has major problems....... Don't ever think for a second that your the problem. Tell your parents and leave him before things get worse.

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