I'm using the birth control patch and I would still never let my boyfriend climax inside of me. We had sex without condoms once and he didn't finish in me and I still freaked out until my period came. It's really all about what makes YOU comfortable. I know I'm definately not.

If the problem is in the condom..
He can simply not use condom, but instead of ejaculating inside your body he does it I don't know.. over your body or in your mouth xD!!!

It's what me and my boyfriend are going to do next year when we first meet!
he doesn't cum inside you, so it doesn't matter, you don't need a condom, especially not with pills to protect you! =3

I think you should never do something that you don't feel 100% right about. If you're afraid of getting pregnant, ask your boyfriend how badly he wants to be a daddy. lol. Could thinner condoms be an option?

eh i've always had sort of an issue with this as well...make sure you think it through bc once you let your bf go all the way it'll be harder tryin to get him to go BACK to doing anything else...i'm on b.c. as well and I was paranoid like u, for a while he did not finish inside of me but now I let him...I too get worried every time its "that" time of the month(which is actually supposed to be in 2 days) anyway..i've mentioned jokingly that we should go back to condoms and he is sooo NOT for it...i hate them too..they irritate me...so it really just depends on your comfort level with the pills...if u take them correctly they're 99% effective...is it worth it to you to take that 1% chance? i'm starting to rethink my situation...i'm thinkin about talkin to him about finishing OUTside..just to ease my mind alittle bit more