hii,i am 24 years old.I had sex for the first time in my life with a prostitute in last august. At that time i used a condom. after that i went to have sex with some other prostitutes around 5. all of the time i used condom , thats am damn sure. i lastly had sex in December. I still don't know why i took this stupid and foolish decision in my life to have sex with all these prostitutes.
Now am scared for my rest of life.. can u pls tell me what are the possibilities and probability of getting any infection or diseases..or STD when used condom whenever u had sex...its been a hell for me each and everytime i think abt it.... and i dint took a blood test after December.
Any sex is risky. With a condom it is called safe sex but condoms break, leak, things happen. The only really safe sex is no sex and we all know that no sex is not the answer. people like sex and thats healthy. But you have to be smart. All that sex with all those prostitutes in a matter of days is risky not just for AIDS and HIV but for many other STDs. To be young and horny is to be careless sometimes. I understand that. With that being said, I hope you learned something here. You used condoms, that is great but you are still worried,right? That is because you know those prostitutes had been with hundreds of other men and who knows who those men slept with so you weren't just having sex with those prostitutes, you were having sex with all the people those prostitutes had sex with. You should get tested for HIV and all other STDS. It was in December? That is plenty of waiting time. Go to the free clinic, they have anonymous testing. If you come out clean then take that as a good omen and try to control your urges. Not always easy for a young man but try. And remember that sex is better when you know the person and when you are safe. You played safe. That is great. I applaud you for that. But numerous sex partners means numerous risks. Get tested and let us here how you are. Good Luck.
Hi guy`s going back to some time in November, after a drunken night out i did something really stupid and never to be repeated. After being a single guy for a considerable while and havent had sex for approximately 5 or so years now im got an urge whilst in Benidorm and went to a brothel where it was a nightclub from what i can remember it seemed proffessional and that and i had protected vagina sex but not anal although i did get oral and she asked me to perform to lick the vagina which i did due to my naieveity. And although the condoms never broke and used different ones after each act i was made to take a shower after and wash blah blah blah. I cant help but worry about the std`s or what the risk of catching HIV from the ludicrous nightn of pure madness, just wondering if someone can reassuring by letitng me know how high the risks of catching anything from this stupid night out.
When people ask me what is the risk I have to say it doesn't matter.Any risk is a risk be it 1 in 100 or 1 in 100000....it could be you.So get tested for all STDs including HIV.Its best to know your status so you can take the proper steps.If you are negative then be happy,feel blessed and play safe every single time.
Cheers ! Just out of curiosity read on all the symptoms kind of thing havent really had any except right now which appears to be a cold the normal things hadachey , coughs although a reddish rash has occured under my armpit which appears to be a bit irritable. Could these be a symptoms of HIV or is just probaly a general cold and as for the rash this has occured over the last week or so although the incident happened approximately 6 weeks ago. I will get tested but is these symptoms anything to worry about.