i've been with my b/f for some time. one of his requests a while back was to have prostate massage. i didn't know anything about this, but i'm open to sexual things and making him happy.
a few times i have like gone down on him and massaged the area between his testes and his anus. he has really liked this. i have also on occasion touched his anus very superficially (only on the outside) while i was giving him a bj or either when he was on top of me having sex. he has found this very enjoyable...and this is what has led him to requets the prostate massage.
honestly, i'm not overly comfortable with the idea of prostate massage, but i really want to make him happy and he is such a sweet man, and a great b/f i figured i'd try it...so yesterday evening, he was at my apt and we had just gotten home from working out. i told him that we could get in the shower together and we took turns washing eachother up.
after that, once we got out of the shower i went down on him and put a really well lubed finger in his bottom. i don't really know to tell you what i did, but i basically just kind of felt around in there and within seconds he was...let's say... "REALLY HAPPY".
not my preference of things to do, but not that big of a deal either and it sure was enjoyable for him. from his reaction you'd have thought i gave him a million dollars or something. haha. incidentally, my fingernails are really short.
jasmine