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Problems with Achieving Orgasm

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During sex, I maintain an erection, but it takes what my ex-girlfriend said is an inordinately long amount of time for me to ejaculate, on the order of an hour of actual sex. I'm not sure if this is a medical issue or something, but she (my girlfriend) says it's weird. It's at the point where she had to take breaks during sex, and she was getting frustrated with the whole deal. It doesn't seem to matter how aroused I am, or what we're doing, as there was no difference between how long it takes with oral or vaginal sex, and it took longer if she was just using her hand. Is this something I should talk to a doctor about, or...?

More info: I still took that long with previous girlfriends, she was just the only one who said it was abnormal, and I'm not sure if it even is or not.
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replied August 2nd, 2011
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An hour is very long. It will get very uncomfortable for her if you just pump away for an hour. A vagina is not made for that. Friction and heat will just become a huge problem for her.

What happens when you masturbaste?
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replied August 10th, 2011
enlarge my penis size
my penis measures only 3 inches. is that the normal size of the penis ? if not what should i have to do to make penis bigger . As im due for marriage, i want to make it bigger soon. any pils available to make ot larger . will there be an side effects later because of the use of pills to make my penis larger ??? kindly advice ....
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replied August 10th, 2011
enlarge my penis size
my penis measures only 3 inches. is that the normal size of the penis ? if not what should i have to do to make penis bigger . As im due for marriage, i want to make it bigger soon. any pils available to make ot larger . will there be an side effects later because of the use of pills to make my penis larger ??? kindly advice ....
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replied August 30th, 2011
Most guys can only last about 2-4 mins. I don't think Ive ever lasted 4 mins which seems like a really long time,try watching a clock for 4 mins without moving your eyes off it. Go to wikipedia or google "delayed ejaculation". There are many causes for it. It could be a side effect of some meds, stress, prostate problems, diabetes...etc. Also make sure your not using a condom with Benzocaine in it ment for delaying ejaculation. Talk to your doc about it.
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