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Q: Problem with cigarettes
asked by: wildwoodflower on April 4th, 2008
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Cigarettes are very against my beliefs. When my fiance and I first started dating he understood this and quit, without me asking and I was very grateful. Recently, about a month ago, we found out we're going to be having a baby in October. Yesterday I found a pack of cigarettes in his car, and he told me they were a friends. I KNEW he was lying, I can read him like a book. SO, not only is he smoking again (for a month now, is what he's told me- great timing right?) but he lied to my face. My trust for him is broken, though this is the biggest problem we've ever had. I feel extremely hurt, what should I do?
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slamdunk
replied on May 28th, 2008
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what you should do is not over react. maybe he was feeling stress about the new baby, and knew you wouldn't like it so he hid it. he was concerned and at least didn't do it in front of you. don't let something so small interfear with your relationship if that is your biggest problem so far, you are doing good!!! just talk to him about it and hear his side to.
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slamdunk
replied on May 28th, 2008
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what you should do is not over react. maybe he was feeling stress about the new baby, and knew you wouldn't like it so he hid it. he was concerned and at least didn't do it in front of you. don't let something so small interfear with your relationship if that is your biggest problem so far, you are doing good!!! just talk to him about it and hear his side to.
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