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Q: Pro- Choice and Christian
asked by: myownvoice on October 17th, 2008
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Well i myself am a woman who believes in having a choice. As my screen name dictates i have my own voice and don't require ANYBODY to tell me that I HAVE TO have a baby. I have never had an abortion but i do believe that the choice is mine to make. I believe women should have the right to choose what is done with their bodies. Its like people telling me i can not have a tattoo or i can't have my ears pierced because they said so. If a woman or young girl has been raped i do not think that she should have to go through the birth process and suffer the pain of child birth. Girls getting raped by their fathers and brothers and uncles are having babies everyday and they have to live with a mistake, that was not their choice AT ALL. A woman would end up traumatized. Take for example countries that have anti-abortion laws and the amount of children born of rape, incest or child trafficking. there was an instance where a young girl was rescued from "pimps" that were selling her for drugs. When they took her in to get checked out of course she had been violated and was unfortunately pregnant. She was forced to have this baby at the tender age of 12 and for what? To uphold a belief that our Christian God says we shouldn't do that when what was done to her had nothing to do with her belief in God. She was raped and tortured but she was responsible enough to where she didn't just give the baby up for adoption she took care of her (it was a girl) and you know what she doesn't regret it. I would to be completely honest. Call me heartless or a b**** but i couldn't do that. As a victim of rape myself i do not want to be reminded of what was done to me ans i think i speak for most women who have been in my position that had we become pregnant from this repulsive act we would feel guilty. I felt guilty about being raped for years but not anymore i know it wasn't my fault but i still have problems having intercourse with my husband because i remember that night every night and all i can do is pray and hope that no woman would ever have to go through that. now to go through a rape and then have to go through child birth is overwhelming. I would look into that child's eye and i may or may not hate it but i know that i will never be able to tell them about their "father" and how he came to be. "Yea your father raped me and thats how you came along", just doesn't seem to fit into dinner conversation but throughout all my rambling God gave all of his children a choice, which is why we're not angels. He gave us a choice so why should anyone take that freedom from us?
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jenniferxnicole
replied on February 11th, 2009
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I completely agree with you. I am a christian and I had an abortion last October. I have no regrets, no remorse, really no emotion towards it at all. It almost doesn't really even phase me. I was asleep for the procedure, so I do feel that it would've been a bit more emotional if I was awake for it. I don't see myself as a bad person or a bad christian, I did what was right for me and that's all that matters.
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life1234
replied on February 11th, 2009
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it's not about whether to have a baby or not, it's about whether to have sex or not.
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lucy315
replied on February 11th, 2009
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life1234 wrote:
it's not about whether to have a baby or not, it's about whether to have sex or not.


Right....I'll just tell my fiance (and boyfriend of 6 years) that we can't have sex anymore because we don't want children. Rolling Eyes

By the way, this is the pro-choice forum....
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lucy315
replied on February 11th, 2009
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jenniferxnicole wrote:
I completely agree with you. I am a christian and I had an abortion last October. I have no regrets, no remorse, really no emotion towards it at all. It almost doesn't really even phase me. I don't see myself as a bad person or a bad christian, I did what was right for me and that's all that matters.


I also had an abortion in October (but two years ago) and I feel the same way you do. I chose not to have sedation, though. I know I did what was right for me.
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jbob
replied on February 11th, 2009
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all the pro life people need to take all the financial responcibility for the kids who would have nerver know otherwise and we'll see how log it take to change their views
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life1234
replied on February 11th, 2009
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that is exactly what you should do, lucy315.
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lucy315
replied on February 11th, 2009
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life1234 wrote:
that is exactly what you should do, lucy315.


LOL! giggle. So even though my boyfriend and I will be married shortly, we should NEVER have sex because we don't want kids?? Oh, this is too much!
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life1234
replied on February 11th, 2009
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The whole point of marriage is to have kids.
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lucy315
replied on February 11th, 2009
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life1234 wrote:
The whole point of marriage is to have kids.


Oh, this is getting better and better. I'm curious as to who made up this rule of yours. Because as far as I know, marriage is about love and commitment. It's about wanting to spend your entire life with someone who you care deeply for....your best friend. I can't imagine my life without my fiance, and can't wait to marry him.
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ProudMommyof2008
replied on February 11th, 2009
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that is what society has told us to believe.
marriage=kids.
but that is not what all marriages are about.
some people dont want kids.
they want to grow old together and enjoy each other, experience different things, trvel the world.

not all marriages are about kids or having kids.
some married couples are not in a steady financial situation to bring in kids. but there still supposed to have them and practice "Natural Family Planning" right?
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jenniferxnicole
replied on February 11th, 2009
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What if a women in a serious relationship is unable to even have kids in the first place, are you saying she shouldn't get married to the man she loves because they won't have kids? Are you kidding me? PLEASE point out to me where in the Bible it states marriage is solely for reproducing or whatever the heck your getting this from.
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ProudMommyof2008
replied on February 11th, 2009
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i never thought of that situation jen, thats a great question for life.
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lucy315
replied on February 11th, 2009
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jenniferxnicole wrote:
What if a women in a serious relationship is unable to even have kids in the first place, are you saying she shouldn't get married to the man she loves because they won't have kids? Are you kidding me? PLEASE point out to me where in the Bible it states marriage is solely for reproducing or whatever the heck your getting this from.


Great question! sunny I'm curious to hear the responses..
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jenniferxnicole
replied on February 11th, 2009
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Life1234 probably thinks women who are unable to have children should be beheaded or something.
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lucy315
replied on February 11th, 2009
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jenniferxnicole wrote:
Life1234 probably thinks women who are unable to have children should be beheaded or something.


Snicker.. giggle
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ProudMommyof2008
replied on February 11th, 2009
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im still wondering too she has not yet replied...
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jenniferxnicole
replied on February 11th, 2009
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She's been served. Razz
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ProudMommyof2008
replied on February 11th, 2009
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indeed!
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life1234
replied on February 20th, 2009
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Actually, I'm not a she. I'm a he. haha. I forgive you though:)
If a woman is in a marriage and she cannot have kids, then the couple should adopt. I should say that the goal of marriage is to raise kids as their parents.

What is the goal of marriage if not to raise kids? To love your spouse? Sex is the ultimate sign of your love for someone. Sex is for reproduction is it not? If you have sex you must always know that the outcome could be a child. I agree with lovenlife completely. I just wanted to add a few things.

I'll look in the bible for something to support what I am saying, as I'm sure there is. So I'll get back to you on that. =]
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