I have been reading around on here and still cant find something that has worked for me. I am 22 now. I've had sex with 6 girls since I was about 17 when I lost my virginity.

The first time I had sex I lasted nearly 40 minutes. Every time after that..2 minutes if im lucky. And well if im drunk I would say at least 20, but that is not the way I want to do this.

Its pretty embarrassing. I have pretty good control when I masturbate. I can make myself last pretty much as long as I want to go for by using the "start/stop" method. That has worked pretty well for masturbation, however when it comes to sex it just doesn't work.

I haven't had sex in at least a year until tonight and well needless to say it didn't last very long. I have noticed that after a few months of sex with the same partner, it gradually lasted longer because I was more comfortable with the person most likely.

Still not long enough as I would like. I have read all kinds of articles on the internet of all the techniques and exercises you could do with whatever that muscle is called. I've read about anti-depressants, but never tried them.

I am wondering, what has worked for some of you guys out there?

I guess my first step would be to tell the girl I am with right now and be up front about it rather than try and hide it.

thanks guys and whoever finds a cure for this is going to be looked upon as a god!