We all want control, so how is it that some guys have it and some guys struggle with it ?
When we think about control, it evokes a different question from normal.
Do we wonder what control really means ? When you talk about it to guys who seem to know how to achieve it they talk in terms of that 'other' factor.

The 'other' factor is usually tied up with them feeling relaxed about themselves, they seem to have a manner about them where they are not rushed. So lets look at this a little closer and discover the how....

To do this lets first have a look at the known aspects. O.k. every guy knows that when they are stressed they come quicker than usual and put it down to tiredness. This is normal right, isn't that what guys say....oh I've been working long hours, I'm tired. Come on guys what does this imply ? O.k. your energy is low and that's normal right ? but do guys connect that if they continue with this sort of practice how is this going to bring them different results ?

Lets talk about this...... are you expecting that even tho you have been working long hours and now you feel that something is missing, that suddenly its going to change for you without you changing your habit patterns...?

But what if it were possible to do this change over ? O.k. lets take an example....say you are a tennis player or other sports player and you wanted to better yourself, but you are out of condition. I guess that when you first start, initially your practice is going to take a lot out of you and you will get even more tired, makes sense right ? But what happens after this, is what turns an ordinary person into a champion. Something begins to change, the energy steps up we don't know how this happens but we do know that it does.

So what do you think so far lets open this up and talk about how energy influences prolonged orgasm and ultimately controlling ejaculation....