pregnant vagina pain, hot, red, sore, husband suffering too

When you are pregnant, everything changes. Your genitals swell up and pressure on your vagina and other parts change. Heat and humidity build up is normal. It is almost as ifyou are super aroused the whole time. There are a lot of blood flowing to that area, causing engorgement and heat, and intercourse makes that worse.

Most couples will continue with intercourse until it gets uncomfortable. And it is almost guaranteed to get uncomfortable at some stage. Switch to other forms of sex play - oral sex, hand sex, kissing and massage. Some couples even find anal sex much easier and satisfying during this time.

You can try to stay dry and cool to see if it will combat it. Without sounding gross, sit so that your genitals air out, wash only withl lukewarm water and your fingers there, avoid warm and tight pants, go without panties when it is safe to do so.

Use an ice pack (wrapped in cloth to prevent ice burns) to cool down. Limit the intercourse part of sex to the minimum amount of time. Get your orgasm some other way.

Best of luck!