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briannaxo
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Pregnant...schooling?
Posted: 09-23-08 21:06pm
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hi all,
so i am almost 16 and i just found out i
am pregnant. i am a very good student in
school but i do not want to stay attending
my school while pregnant. i was just
wondering if anyone knew any other
options. i have heard about schools just
for pregnant teens but i could not find
much about them online.
thanks for the help.
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Mabel
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Posted: 09-23-08 21:47pm
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Your parents should be able to talk to
your school district. There are
alternatives to mainstream school, there
are online options, etc.
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RebelCats
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Posted: 09-24-08 10:44am
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My advice is ignore any odd looks and talk
and power through school. Once you drop
out and have a kid its very hard to get
back to school. I took me over 12 years to
get back into school after I dropped out.
If there is an alternative school go for
that if not just stay in and power
through.
On the online options be very careful. I
good friend of mine did that. When she
dropped out of H.S. she went and talked to
the Board of Ed. for our county about an
online program to get her H.S diploma.
They recommended a very well known
correspondence school to finish out her
diploma. This program cost her over 1,000$
to complete. Well now just a few short
years later she is told that diploma is no
good at our college (I am attending there
to get my GED). So after spending 1 grand
to get a diploma its no good.
Aside from that online programs are gonna
cost a bunch. Check online but I would be
surprised if you could find such a program
online for under a grand. If you decide to
go the online route make sure its gonna be
good at the colleges in your area.
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briannaxo
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Posted: 09-24-08 14:56pm
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i deffinatly do not want to drop out. my
goal is to graduate from highschool with
my class, and also to hopefully attend
college.
thank you for letting me know about the
online schooling i didnt know about that,
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 09-24-08 15:29pm
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i got pregnant in my grade 11 year and i
wasnt due till november of my grade 12
year.
what i did is i finnished my grade 11 year
at school then dropped out of public
school and did home schooling.
i actualy found home schooling alot
easier, and faster.
i graduated half a semester early. with
extra credits.
you can do it. if i can. anybody can.
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briannaxo
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Posted: 09-24-08 20:25pm
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im due the end of june, so basically i
will be pregnant this whole school year
(grade 10). but homeschooling is
definattly a good idea, thank you
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christa964
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Posted: 11-04-08 16:07pm
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Have you considered placing your child for
adoption. Studies show that unwed mothers
who place their babies for adoption are
more likely to finish school, get married
and not live in poverty. Adoption is a
responsible choice, putting the needs of
the child ahead of your own.
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briannaxo
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Posted: 11-05-08 09:24am
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No, adoption was never an option for me. I
could not have that baby inside of me for
9 moths and then give it up. Both parents
have offered to watch the baby while i am
attending school and they are both very
supportive of my decisions.
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 11-05-08 17:06pm
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im happy that you will finnish school!
thats great news!
YOU will be a great mother for doing this.
you will give your child what the statics
say you wont.
girls like US are the ones who can change
the looks on people faces.
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briannaxo
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Posted: 11-06-08 17:10pm
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Thank you so much for that. I could never
imagine not finishing school. How else
would i be able to provide for me baby? I
refuse to be one of the teen moms living
off welfare and sitting home doing nothing
about it. I want my baby to have the best
life possible.
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