hi,

My names Lisa, I have two children already who are 5 and 4 years old.

I was on the depo, pill injection, but only had the one jab as I forgot to get the second one, made another appointment to have it the following week, but something was telling me maybe I shouldnt, so I canceled it. I should of had my second jab on the 20th jan 2009.
Me and my very loving boyfriend had intercourse on the 4th feb 2009 (haha, sounds like we dont have it much but we do) we used a condom, as we always do regardless of me taking anything else etc, but at the end, after he came, I carried on, as you do, I was enjoying myself too much ops! but the condom came off alittle and I'm not sure if any sperm went up me or not? I rushed myself upstairs to clean myself (inside and out) thinking this would be enough?

its now 20th feb 2009, I'm getting all the signs of being pregnant even though I was sure I couldnt be, I'm thinking even though I didnt have my next injection, surely it would still be in my system enough to prevent a pregnancy?

I'm getting back pains, feeling sick all the time, headaches, pains down below, like period pains but not as strong, tired all the time, feel like I need to eat but the thought of food makes me want to vomit, nipples are sore and looks like they may be getting bigger etc, need to pee all the time............

I did two at home tests and both came out neg, but I still feel pregnant, both my other children came out possitive straight away, and round about this time too so I'm a little confused as to what to do, is it something to do with any possible side affects with the depo?? am I pregnant, or is it my mind playing tricks??

Can anyone please help me, I dont want to come across as stupid with having two children already, as in, I should know if I'm pregnant or not hahaha

Thanks for taking the time to read my message, i know its abit long, Lisa xxx