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Q: Pregnant by which man ?
asked by: flipflop08 on July 14th, 2009
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I have been with my current boyfriend for three and a half years. However, we took some time away from each other (for almost a month total) between Mid-March and Mid-April. Around the first few days of April, I had sex with another man one time (which was the only time I'd been with someone besides my current boyfriend). We used a condom; and if I remember correctly; he always used the withdrawal method.

I had my period in April (after me and the other man had sex) and again in May. Right after my period in May, my boyfriend and I had sex numerous times. Each time was to completion (he ejaculated inside me); and without any type of birth control whatsoever.

I realized in early July that I missed my period; and I took two pregnancy tests. Both were positive. I'm now beginning to experience morning sickness/swollen, tender breasts (just within the past two weeks).

My boyfriend insists on having a paternity test; since he knows I've been with one other guy one time (in early april). I'm just curious about the chances of me actually being pregnant by that other man. Especially after two periods. Any help/suggestion would be great (:
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W0LF
replied on July 15th, 2009
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No, not very useful. It sounds like you're pretty sure of who the father is anyhow. Having two menstral cycles between sex and first symptoms of pregnancy is pretty much unheard of. I really don't think there's any chance it's condom guy's baby. However, this doesn't much matter. Your Boyfriend doesn't trust you and he likely has his reasons. If you want him to particpate in your child's life you should take the paternity test. He needs something to ground his faith in you so he can find some trust. Don't make a big deal of it. Tell him if he wants the paternity test that you want him to see it because you love him and you want him to be able to trust you.
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breck08
replied on July 15th, 2009
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No doubt your boyfriend is the father of your child. You stated he is aware that you had intercourse with another? Does he know when that took place? To subdue any added stress right now you can let your boyfriend go to the doctor with you. Also, he can be present for your first ultrasound. This will clearly show you both how far along in your pregnancy you are. Allow him to ask the doctor the time of conception. I know because of HIPPA laws you have to give permission for him to be consulted even with you in the room. This shows your sincerity and your willingness to earn trust back. After all of that if he still wants a paternity test then so be it. Let him seek it.
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