Unfortunately, we all understand that "separated" still means legally married. However, it does not always mean emotionally married or attached by the strings of each others hearts. When I say what I say, it is definitely not to judge, because we have all done some things that we are ashamed of. I know I have. We do not need anyone else to remind of us of our wrong doings. First and foremost, I am a southern girl and I belive in asking for forgiveness for the things we've done to hurt others. And of course I'm talking about God, not him or his wife or your family. Sometimes when you are caught up in situations like this you dont always think about how your actions impact others. What you both did was wrong. However, long before you knew that you would be pregnant by this man, God knew. And if you ask he will forgive you. I dont know if you have made a decision to have this child or not. But it is definitely your decision. Regardless of which way you decide to go, it is a decision that you are going to have to make and deal with for the rest of your life. I would advise you not to abort, because that lil life in your belly didnt ask to be brought into that situation and it mos definitely is not asking to die. Right now you need to be closest to those who love and care for you most. And yes you are a good person, you just didnt make a good decision. As for him, trying to make life miserable for you. He might just try to do that and could possibly have the means since you say that he's a wealthy attorney. YOu being pregnant has put a dent in his so-called "perfect" life that he forgot to tell you about. So you might seek out legal counsel or put 911 on your speed dial. Not trying to scare you, just being real. You're still young, as a matter of fact, the same age, So just move on and find somebody who really cares about you, loves you and wants to create a life with you. I really hope that everything works out for you.
