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Q: pregnant and 16
asked by: Genibabi on April 30th, 2008
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ok so im 16 and im 6 weeks pregnant...my boyfriend asked me to marry him of course and i said yes we have been together for 4 years i kno crazy right...lol but anyways we are trying to see if his mom will let us live with them cuz we dont want to be married and not even live together but we dont kno how to ask his mom let alone even bring it up shes told us a millions of times that shes not abandoning us or not gonig to be there for us she just says shes disappointed whcih i can understand....so basically its a 50/50 thing right now but ...also im a lil worried bout some things and i would really like some peoples thoughts and adivce on some of my questons but iwont begin to ask unitl i can talk to someone that wont just give me a "half butt" answer...
thank you
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michellep2
replied on April 30th, 2008
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genibabi , i say just ask her! its a 50/50 chance right? then ask! i'm 18 now. and 14 weeks pregnant. and i live with kevin ( baby's daddy) and his parents! explain the situation to his mom, tell her that it would be the best thing for the baby. and that she said she would support you guys! i also sure that if she said that she wouldn't abondon you guys that she wouldn't turn you guys down if you asked to move in! you can talk to me if you like, i promise no "half butt" answers! lol!
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krystineM
replied on April 30th, 2008
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i agree with michellep2,
give it a shot, sit down with your bf and his mom and calmly talk with her about it.
say something like...i understand that you are disappointed about this situation right now, and you have every right to be as well...But we were wondering if we could live with you when the baby is born, we would pay you rent, and for the things we need, and when you guys put some money aside you'll get your own place. Let her know its just a temporary thing for the time being.
Being 16 and pregnant is tough, and if you can get a helping hand through it, it goes along way.
Im 18 and 24weeks pregnant. I live with my fiance and his brother & his brothers wife and 2 kids, and their parents. They told us they want us to stay so we can put money aside for our own place, and so i'll have an extra hand for when my fiance goes off to work during the days or night.
I would give you "half butt" answers either if you need to talk too lol Smile
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Dannzibelle
replied on April 30th, 2008
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All you can do is ask and if she says no then atleast you still have 34 weeks to figure something out. I was 15 when i was pregnant so if you ever want to talk about anything then pm me
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