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October 18th, 2011
Im a mother of a beautiful 3 year old boy. His father was encarcerated when he was only a month old(sentenced to 5 years in prison). I met this guy who i thought was the best thing i'd ever seen. We got into a relationship. Later to find out he would cheat on me, lie to me, and maybe even steel from me. It went on like this for 2 1/2 years.Now im pregnant! We where together for a while but i just couldnt trust him. This weekend we had an argument he told me he was tired of me that he didnt love me. Now I'm left alone 14 weeks pregnant with alot of weight on my shoulders and dont know what to do or how to feel. I just wish my life would end so that my problems could end. But I dont want to live my 3 year old behind he's my everything. This baby that im carrying now i feel nothing for him. I dont want to be pregnant.
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winterkiss16
replied October 21st, 2011
I feel so bad for you and although iam not in the same situation mine is similar all i have to say is if you were strong enough to carry on and do things with your first little man im sure you can do it alone again...Make sure that you always rember to keep your head up and realize that there is nothing wrong with you you sound like an amazing strong woman and i hope things work out for you!
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PinkCheeks
replied October 24th, 2011
Thankyou very much for your words. This is what I need to go on!
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megandaye
replied November 4th, 2011
i know how you feel . i was and am still in the same boat you are in.I know its hard when you need him to be there and do right . but you have to be strong. sometimes i feel like i don't want to live too. ans it hurts because the treat other women better. but in the end if you stay strong you will be ok.These men will wish they had be there one day just stay strong. remember all the people who can't have children/ and think of this as a blessing
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PinkCheeks
replied November 7th, 2011
I try to see and accept this baby, but all I can think is that all my opportunities in life just minimized and he is out there having fun doing his thing while im here at home regreting this and the day he crossed my life.
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cuttie_pie
replied November 7th, 2011
Its not the babys fault every realtionship has there ups and downs and everything that doesnt kills you makes you stronger you seem like a great strong female dont let nothing get you down do it for you 3 year old and the baby your going to have
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megandaye
replied November 7th, 2011
my pastor told my something sunday and I am going to relay it to you. This child will be a blessing on your life. the devil wants so bad to make us think we can;t do something. The fact that i SHOULD BE DEAD . AND SO SHOULD MY BABY. but some how I am still here and my baby is healthy and still growing inside of me . Tells my heart that this child has a future. I know its hard i KNOW you want to give up. but girl please hold on. I only tell you what I tell myself. you are not the only one who feels this way. but you can be one of the few who doesn't give up and hold on.
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Ucadeal
replied November 17th, 2011
It is sad to say that some people just don't know a good thing until it is gone. And for some reason want to be with everyone they walk pass. In any case always love the baby it is a part of you as well. Never ever just think of hurting your self, there is a lot of pain in the world and we all get to feel it. Some more than others but use it to make you smarter and stronger so that you may past it on to your childern so that maybe they will learn good from you and not have to feel all the pain that you had to go though. I am 37 with no kids and never been married and I would do almost anything to have a child in my life.
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