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Q: Pregnant and lonely

asked by: Simoine on April 30th, 2009

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Hi. My name is Simoine. I am 27 and 8 months pregnant. When I turned 3 months, my boyfriend told me that he could not accept my other kids and he wanted to be by himself. With this baby makes 5 kids. He calls me once every three weeks to check up on the baby. I have seen him probably 7 times since I have been pregnant. Last month I was in the hospital for premature labor. I called him and he said that he was comming. He did not come until the next day when they were releasing me. He told me that it was all my fault. I don't understand why he is doing me like this. We dated 3 years before I got pregnant and I would have never imagined him treating me like this. Now that I am 8 months, I cry every night. Sometimes I can't sleep. I just stay up and cry. I have raised 4 kids on my own, now I am getting ready to do the same thing. I am afraid to have this baby by myself. I know he won't be there. I want to stop crying but I can't. Can somebody help me?

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ServiceU

replied on May 4th, 2009

Supporter

Is this his first child? he probably got scared thinking if he be with you he has to provide for 6 himself.
don't forget family & friends play a role in this. he might've had a few people come to him and tell him not to be with you b/c he would have to be responsible for 5 kids.

My best friend has 5 kids & married, but she had to endure people telling her now husband not to marry her b/c she has 2 kids not his.

but i m surprised about the lack of interest he shows in your pregnancy. this tells you what kind of person he is.
don't feel like no man will ever love you b/c of your kids. i think you shouldn't even worry about your ex right now and focus on your kids. the more kids you have the greater the chance one of them will help you when your older. but concentrate on your family and forget about that looser.
what are your children ages? do you have other kids in diapers?

kissofangel20

replied on July 4th, 2009

Experienced User

Ohh Hun any man that has any kind of feelings for you will love your children all of them not just those from his loins. It sounds more to me like he thought he had a great thing going with a lonely woman reguardless of your children until he fathered one of his own. 5 children are going to be hard to raise on your own but you can do it, you can do anything you put your mind to. All those babies love you as much as you love them. Maybe you should put aside the whole issue of dateing and men for awhile...a Long while and just put your mind toward the new life growing in your womb and taking care of those other babies. Get yourself back on your feet and support yourself and your children. Give them a wonderful role model to look up to. I wish you the best of luck.

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