I just recently found out i was pregnant. The father of the baby and I stopped speaking about 3 weeks before i found out. He would go back and forth between seeing me and his ex girlfriend. I recently got in touch with him and told him that i was pregnant and needless to say he says its not his and wants nothing to do with it. He flipped out and told me that i was being irresponsible if i keep it. I also came to find that his ex girlfriend is also pregnant... which means knowing that she was pregnant he still slept with me. Supposedly he is taking responsibility for his kid with her and is going to be with her (which i didnt want to get back with him anyway). Out of respect i let her know that i was pregnant with his child and that i was going to keep it. Of course the response i got was nasty and she took the things that he did out on me and thinks that i am lying. I think that i can do this and that i am strong enough to handle it all but there are times when i doubt it and wonder if this is fair for the baby. Any advice would be appreciated.