first off, congratulations!

secondly, it would be in both yours and the babys both intrest to talk to your doctor about your concerns to avoid a miscarriage this time around.
your doctor would be the best person who could address your concerns and give you helpful suggestions.
pain or cramping is ok as long as there is no bleeding that goes along with it.
if you feel really concerned with this pain, then go see your doctor. Again, he or she would be able to address your concerns better than anyone on here, dont diagnose yourself through the internet hun.

thank you. i have booked an appointment with them however they could not see me until the 15th may. and when i went to the doctor when i initially found out i raised a few concerns. he said that we hadn't given it enough time since my most recent miscarriage and if it was going to happen they couldnt do anything to stop it yet. i have to say this did not fill me with confidence. he said to me if it happens come back to me and we will do some testing. i feel very alone as my fiance is currently abroad and i my family do not know yet. if you can help in any with advice or anything please do as i feel like i am going out of my mind?????