you will become pregnant again.
although your not stressing, your probably thinking, 'will i ever get pregnant again?'
and while thinking this, it is causing you to be else where and in a way is stressing you subconsciously.
it will happen when its the right time.
some people try for years to get pregnant, then give up and BOOM! they become pregnant.

one of my friends of the family tried to get pregnant for years, they asked the doctor if they should take fertility drugs, did everything the doctors had suggested, and still were not successful.
Then they decided to adopt, and after a year of having their adopted child she got pregnant!
The worry and thought of whether she will ever get pregnant was out of her mind, and she was happy and content, things happen on their own.

dont worry, it will happen, just give it time and relax.

good luck hun.

Thank you, i know what your saying is right and that the mind is such a powerful thing that subconsciously i am stressing and this is the reason for it as i have heard of stories like your friends and it seems the minute you stop trying you get pregnant, you have to laugh you spend so long trying not to get pregnant when your younger only to reverse the whole process as you get older!!

This is my first month using a fertility monitor ans im already on day 16 and no sign of ovulation, i have regular cycles so maybe this could be the issue and that im defecting in some hormone or the other anyhow i will see what happens at the end of this cycle and maybe book an appointment with the doctor to see what they might say/suggest, thanks again for replying. x