I am 27 years old and just had sex for the first time on Oct 28th. We also had sex on the Oct 30th. He used a spermicide, not a condom. He had been tested and was clean so I felt it was okay. Starting on Nov 2nd I started to get real bad headaches, running a fever, and very tired, which has continuted everyday. My head is conjested, my back hurts (but it hurts alot anyway), I have bumps on my areola that I have never had before and my breats are tender. I'm just wondering if these signs are too soon to be considered as pregnancy symptoms. Also I know this is November and I am known to get sick at this time if year so it could be that.

I usually have a 28 day cycle and I believe my period started on the 13th of October, but it could have been the 11th or 12th. So I figure I should get my period this week (Nov 9th to 14th). If I don't get it I plan on taking a pregnancy test. Also my period normally only lasts 4 days, so if I do get my period or bleed should I still take a test? I probably will anyway, cause I've always wanted to take one. Thanks!