ok my period last month was on march 6th
and ended on march 12th..well during that
whole time i was with my bf i would do
stuff to him (handjob) and then when my
period ended..we messed around on the 14th
and the 15th. the 14th i only gave him a
hand job and then washed my hands
afterwards. on the 15th he was stimulating
me for awhile with my underwear down..and
he had all of this clothes on. then after
i began to give him oral sex and a hand
job, and while i was doing this he was
fingering me...so now that you know all
that here is my ridiculous question.
Everytime something like this happens I'm
always so paranoid that somehow maybe he
got some precum on his hands by
"adjusting" himself or my helping get his
pants down and then fingering me. but if
he did don't you think i would've known??
and would there be any possible way i
could be pregnant from this scenario?? his
penis was never close to me down there,
and if it was we both had our clothes on
oh and also after we were done i had wiped
my hands on a towel pretty well to get
everything off..and then like 10 minutes
later touched myself down there BREIFLY
because i had an itch.should that be
something to be worried about??
we've never even had sex!
oh and here's another thing which may make
me sound even dumber...but i got my
period on april 4th (which is a little
earlier than i was expecting it) and the
first day i had really bad cramps..and
all period symptoms leading up to it, such
as sore breats,lower back pain,cramping,
but this whole time its been a lot lighter
than it usually is. I'm currently on day 5
and my bleeding keeps coming and going.
Could stress do this?? because it's
something that's constantly on my mind and
the week after all this happened i went
through a really stressful time and wasn't
eating a whole lot. can that effect it?
I know this sounds like im super paranoid,
but i cant help it! does anyone have any
advice??
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-08-08 20:46pm
you've asked this question in another
forum on here. you dont need to post your
question more than once.
Anyways, there is no way you can get
pregnant like this. You said you both had
clothes on, and his penis was no where
near you down there.
Whatever was or could have been on your
hands was wiped away.
How old are you, periods are never 100%
regular unless on birth control and
especially not regular when young.
It is most likely lighter because you are
worried about possibly being pregnant,
which you arent so dont worry. Stress
plays a big BIG part on our bodies, and
can make periods late, short or lighter
and weird.
My only advice...get knowledge about all
risks of sex before engaging in sexual
acts, dont just do these things [oral,
hand jobs ect.] and then ask questions
later. Know the risks before going ahead
and doing it. Maybe get on birth control
if your that worried ALL the time, OR dont
do these things at all..
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pinky281
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Joined: 08 Apr 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-08-08 20:53pm
im 19 so i've been on my period for a
good 8 years now. and i know being 19 is a
a little old to be asking this
questions..and my bf even tells me i'm
being ridiculous because he keeps saying
you have to have SEX to get pregnant. but
after everything i read, i just keep
telling myself in my mind that nothing is
IMPOSSIBLE. but my periods are never
regular. the flow usually is but the
timing never is..it just falls in a
general time within a week. its been as
late as a week before but i don't think
ever early. i know i should stop being
paranoid, but the only reason why i'm
wondering is because my period flow is way
different this month. thanks for your
input though!!
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-08-08 21:42pm
Well, getting pregnant that way, is
like..no chance at all. There were clothes
on and sperm cannot pass through clothes
even if it was not near you at all. So
your just stressing yourself out hun.
Plus, you said that your periods are never
regular, so the flow of your period is
most likely caused by stressing yourself
out about the thought of being pregnant.
Since their not regular, they can come a
week before, a week after a few days
earlier..the only time you would have to
worry about being pregnant, is if you had
unprotected SEX where he finished inside
you, then you could be pregnant.
Im positive your not pregnant, just
stressed out, which is the explaination to
the weird flow this month.
