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ace2589
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pregnancy chance ?
Posted: 05-03-08 13:32pm
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So my girlfriend and I had sex for the
first time last night like a week after
her period ended...I pulled out before i
came by a good 10 seconds...then i washed
it off with soap and water and then we
went again and i pulled out before i came
again...i know it was stupid but what are
the chances she could be pregnant?
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spooled2k3
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Posted: 05-03-08 14:43pm
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I dont know how likely it would be that
she would become pregnant. It is
possible, as sperm can leak out before you
ejaculate. I would say its better to to
pull out than to come inside her. If you
dont like to use condoms, why not get some
form of birth control or use spermicide
before you have sex.
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ace2589
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Posted: 05-03-08 23:58pm
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it was kinda spur of the moment..thanks
that makes me feel a little better next
time ill be more safe..it was a huge
mistake and its been worrying me really
bad
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-04-08 00:34am
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If she's worried she can take planB.
Check and see if she'd be interested in
birth control. That way there can always
be a spur of the momment kinda thing. 
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ace2589
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Posted: 05-04-08 22:11pm
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so what do you think on the chances of
pregnancy cause i could not handle that im
only 18
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concernedk
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Posted: 05-04-08 22:41pm
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plan b would be a great options because no
matter what the chances it could still
happen. you can take plan b up to 72 hours
after unprotected sex
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mominashoe
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Posted: 05-04-08 23:08pm
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| ace2589
wrote: | | so what do you think on the
chances of pregnancy cause i could not
handle that im only
18 |
If you can't handle pregnancy, then don't
have sex. There is always a chance of
pregnancy even with a condom. I read an
article that said that one out of every 5
condoms break, so it's just like playing
Russian roulette only with sex.
You can get a girl pregnant by fooling
around like you did, even if you don't
ejaculate. Get educated about things
before you do them: this is no light
matter.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-05-08 01:16am
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Definetely need some education...
I don't know, I suppose I just think that
if you're not ready for a kid then don't
have unprotected sex. I've never
heard that for every five condoms used one
breaks. I'm sure if people knew how to use
them correctly this wouldn't be the case.
I've heard the chance of it breaking is 5%
if used correctly and there are things you
can do to be sure your condom has even
less chance of breaking. All you need to
do is some research.
Look into plan b for this time only. Then
ask your girlfriend about what form of
birth control to use and use it. Its also
good to double up (like using pills and
condoms).
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mommyglamour
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Posted: 05-05-08 01:53am
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they are right...you need to just slap a
hand to it if you can't handle going
without because people have gotten
pregnant in much more rare cases and it
almost always ends in
pregnancy.....especially these days
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ace2589
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Posted: 05-05-08 15:19pm
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thanks for the help..ya we both decided
that we cant take the consequences and it
was a mistake and that we are going to
wait until we get older before we have sex
again..i guess the only thing to do now is
hope and pray cause its been over 72
hours..thanks you everyone for the advice
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mommyglamour
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Posted: 05-05-08 19:28pm
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good to hear...but it certainly won't be
easy....you'll both just have to get
creative i suppose.
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Posted: 05-05-08 19:36pm
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deffinately be careful and get as much
info as you can. my boyfriend got his ex
pregnant when they were both 18,(hes 23
now ) he didnt want it cause they were
both too young, but she wanted to keep it
cause i guess she thought that things
would just magically fall into place and
theyd be one happy family? but it didnt
work out that way. jus a real dose of
reality for you, not trying to scare you
or anything, just giving you one of the
many consequences if your not playing it
safe. but just be safe and if she gets
birthcontrol go with her if you can to her
appointments it.ll help her feel safe and
that your serious about her and you guys
relationship
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