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Q: pregnancy causing disgust toward husband ?

asked by: nutsi on June 2nd, 2008

New User

Dear Dr.

I'm now two months pregnant and I've been fully changed since I heard about my pregnancy. The most disturbing signs that I feel are disgust toward my husband and his smell of body. I don't even want to see him at home, to hear his voice on the phone. All these make both of us nervous and we have much conflict. I got married when I was in love with him and now I feel quite other feeling. everybody says it's natural and the cause of it is my pregnancy but it's hard to believe. Our honeymoon became afwul. I need to know: is it usual sign of pregnancy and will it disappear when I step into second trimester (I hope I'll be OK when I am three months pregnant) or is there any other problem inside me? Sometimes I think I have to go to psychologist. my life became insufferable.

Looking forward to your response.
Thank you in advance.

Nini

Replies(9)

TwinBoys

replied on June 2nd, 2008

New User

I am very sure that I felt this way. I thought that their was something wrong with me and thought that we should just end our relationship. I am now 30weeks pregnant with identical twin boys and I can't get enough of his attention.. I even get mad now that he doesn't spend enough time with me I keep telling him we need to spend the quality time together now before the babies come.. He just laughs because 20weeks ago I didn't feel this way I really didn't even want him to come home at night.. It will get better I promise and if it doesn't keep in contact with me and I will try to help you in anyway I can..
April

nutsi

replied on June 3rd, 2008

New User

Thanks a lot Smile

I got a bit calm to hear that I will ask my husband to wsend much time with me. Oh,God, its' so unimaginable ath this stage for me. You say everything will be fine but when will things be better, when? Sad

In your case coming twin boys are so wonderful.
Keep in touch with me and please write your name to me.

charliecharlie

replied on June 6th, 2008

New User

i went through the saaaammmee thing. when i was 2 1/2 months pregnant, my husband and i took a trip to europe together and i was miserable and just wanted to get away from him. the smell of him (as you said), hearing him talk, everything...

now (i'm nearly 18 1/2 weeks pregnant) i cant get enough of him. im so in love with him, like always. it will pass, my dear. i promise! just keep telling yourself that it will pass and try not to make him feel bad for just being himself. believe me, dont push him away, you're gonna need him!

<3
charlie

nightangel73

replied on June 7th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

That is so weird not to mean to say it can't happen.. I understand the smell thing because pregnancy does change your sense of smell but oh I definetly want my husband beside me now more than ever at 2 months pregnant. I guess it's just because of the smell thing that might can cause a disgust toward the other person.

Now this stomach discomfort and not being able to eat with my usual hunger does kills me. hehe

Rosie H

replied on June 9th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

This happened to me too. There was a time during my morning sickness where I couldnt even kiss him or be close to him at all. He was so happy about the baby and pregnancy and wanted to be near me and cuddle and I just couldnt stand it. I felt sooo bad.

How many men are so caring you know? That stage passed and now we are ok. My advice is to try and be as nice and understanding to him as possible. You dont want to hurt their feelings if they are trying so hard to be good.

stephanieevers

replied on June 16th, 2008

New User

I dont want to spoil the mood everyone is putting out lol. but that happened with me. when i had my first as soon as i got pregnant i didnt want him around. everything he said did annoyed me for some reason. and it never changed. i stuck through it then after i had my first i got preg again right after and still had the same feelings. it never really went away i just tried to make my self think it would be okay. a few months after i had my second we separated. but thats just my situation. might not be the same

trijos21

replied on June 16th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

i felt the same way after we got preg. We planned this baby and we were sooo excited when we found out. Then when i started getting sick he didnt understand and we would argue a lot and then i couldnt stand to be around him. I told him to get out of the house and go stay with his mother!!! Men dont understand at all. Now that im feeling better (im 14 wks) weve been getting along a lot better like we did before and he helps more. I think it will pass!!! Just hang in there!!!

nutsi

replied on June 19th, 2008

New User

Many, many thanks girls!

All of you tried to calm me down. And you really did.

trijos21

replied on June 19th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

it will go by fast...promise!!!

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