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Q: Pregnancy after first time ?
asked by: CurlyWirly on July 23rd, 2009
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Hi

I recently had sex for the first time and lost my virginity.
the following week i bledd for 3 days but i was still taking my pill...
i then finished my packet of 3 weeks pills sunday.
we did not use a condom and now i havent started my period yet on this 'break' from the pill. what should i do?

also how many weeks is it that you can have an abortion up to. because i know for certain if i am prenant i would not be able to cope or even look after a child even if it was my fault and mistake

thank you

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xomollyxo7
replied on July 23rd, 2009
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same situation girl. just pray you aren't pregnant, take some home pregnancy tests. also, you can have an abortion up to 3 months.
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CurlyWirly
replied on July 23rd, 2009
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omg.

i actually dont want any of this. and i know its my fault and i am seriously praying:/

ok so i should be alright only because im going on holiday next week and i wont be back for a month and my dad doesnt know.
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xomollyxo7
replied on July 24th, 2009
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yeah i am like freaking out thinking something is wrong wiht me. here's what happend. i had sex witht my boyfriend, condom broke, and i have been worrying that i'm pregnant ever since. i took 5 tests and they were all negative, but my period is 3 days late. i have bad cramps and my boobs are sore, just like my period, but no period.

i'm just really scared Sad
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singergirl18
replied on July 25th, 2009
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Molly, I had the same thing happen to me. I had sex with my bf with no condom and my period was late by 4 days. I had all of the symptoms and no period. Im sure that you stressing out is what is causing you to be late. Do what I did, Keep your mind off of it and relax and your period should come. If not, wait a week and take another test, it is to early to know just yet
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singergirl18
replied on July 25th, 2009
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CurlyWirly,

When I lost my virginity my period was all out of whack.I was 2 weeks late and I only bled for 3 days. Since you just lost your virginity you body might still be in the mind set of this is something new. Wait a week after you are late, if you still are, and take a test. But stressing over it will mess up your cycle even more. So like I said to Molly, just try to relax and let your body deal with it all naturally
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susan862003
replied on July 27th, 2009
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If you took your pill as directed, the chances are very very very slim that you will be pregnant. The hormones in the pill can cause all sort of changes to your cycle and bleeding/spotting at strange times - especially if you only started recently taking the pill. Keep on taking the pill as directed.
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