Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 136 Location: wellington, New zealand
pre term labor Posted: 05-10-08 01:44am
im almost 34 weeks pregnant, and my
partner of 14 months left me on thursday.
All he said to me was that he cant do this
anymore, that he doesnt want to lead me on
thinking something will happen when it
wont and to find myself a new man, and
then walked out. I was living with him at
the time, when i spoke to him later that
day he said he didnt love me and that he
never would, that i deserve better than
him. The stress put me into pre term
labour. Luckily i got to the hosp and they
stopped it, but they say im going to have
baby in the next couple of weeks. This is
all after he promised me he would never
leave and blah blah blah. I moved out
today when i got out of hospital, and even
though i love him, i am not waiting for
him am i making the right decision in not
waiting for him to come back? or should i
be trying to talk him into coming back for
the sake of baby? I wont stop him from
seeing baby, but i dont know if i can have
him in my life for the next few weeks
because he hurt me and what if seeing him
puts me back into labour? Im so confused
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KandeeKane
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 09-15-08 20:18pm
First off!.. I can't believe no one wrote
you back!... Second! leave him alone!!
I know it is easier said than done but
what is best for you and YOUR child is to
leave him alone pour all the love you
would given to your childs father into
your own child I promise you won't Hear
your child say he "doesn't love and never
will!"
so remain strong and know your kid is
counting on you!... You do your best and
GOD will do the rest!....
