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Q: Pre cum causing pregnancy ??
asked by: nickn313 on April 25th, 2009
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Im 18 and my girlfriend too. On the 24th we were fooling around a little and i fingered her. We had our clothes on though! and then i was just adjusting my boxers and i got a little of pre cum on my fingers...but im PRETTY sure i wiped it off! and after about 4-5min i fingered her again..i never went deep though. And moreover last night i'd masturbated and ejaculated at about 10pm. And i pee'd a lot of times during the night and in the morning once... so would this hav washed away any sperms which were there? Im really worried if my g.f would get pregnant... Its the 26th already and we cant take the pill... im really worried..please help me! would she be pregnant?? if so, wat would be the signs?? and wat do i do then? Sad Sad
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jennk
replied on April 26th, 2009
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To my knowlege dried "cum" cannot get her pregnant. Sperm can only live for so long and I am pretty sure if they were dry they were no good. I wouldnt worry about it. There is a slim to no chance that would get her pregnant. Im not a doc. but a mom of three. You can relax.
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scaredgirl1989
replied on April 26th, 2009
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Sperm can live up to 5 days in a women. So if she is late... get a pregnancy test.

Signs; Tender breast, deeper vein colour in that area, nausea. But, again you wont know for sure until you get a test *after* she has missed an expected period.
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nickn313
replied on April 27th, 2009
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hmm..ok guys.. she had her period on the 12th or 13th....and this hapnd on the 24th... ok telme, if she misses her next period i got a LOT to worry about right? wat if she doesnt miss her periods? then nothing to worry about?? wat are the first signs if shes pregnant..wen does that happen??? wil doing a home preg test help at this stage?
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Maddie34
replied on April 27th, 2009
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No. You don't need to worry about pregnancy in this situation. Dried/wiped off pre cum is not going to get someone pregnant.

And even though you don't need it for this case, it's important that you understand that you can take emergency contraceptives up to 5 days after, so I'm not sure why you thought your couldn't on the 26th.

Be safe and start thinking about birth control methods since you're starting to get physical!
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scaredgirl1989
replied on April 28th, 2009
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nickn313 wrote:
hmm..ok guys.. she had her period on the 12th or 13th....and this hapnd on the 24th... ok telme, if she misses her next period i got a LOT to worry about right? wat if she doesnt miss her periods? then nothing to worry about?? wat are the first signs if shes pregnant..wen does that happen??? wil doing a home preg test help at this stage?


You may have a lot to worry about, it depends on what you both have talked about (weather if she is if you want to continue with the pregnancy or abort the pregnancy). If she doesn't miss her next period you *should* be golden. The first sign of pregnancy is if she misses her period. A home pregnancy test will definitely help clear the situation up (or it could complicate them). If she is still late and a negative pregnancy test, get her to talk to her doctor. Be supportive, she will need it.
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nickn313
replied on April 30th, 2009
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we'r trying to avoid pregnancy here at any cost!!!! Neutral hope she gets her period on tym! could you please telme even if her period is delayed, how delayed should it be that it woulld be a matter of concern? shes supposed to get her period on may5 or 6.... if its delayed vy a couple of days and if she gets it say on may 8, would it mean thats a sign that shes preg?? Sad i seriously hav no clue bout this.. please help me out..!! and a home preg test is kind of tuff to take now cuz shes grounded at home!!!!!! Sad Sad
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scaredgirl1989
replied on May 1st, 2009
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If her period is delayed by a couple of days it's not a big deal. Although, she could still be pregnant if she gets it (I wouldn't really worry about that though, it doesn't happen too often). As for the pregnancy test, you could always get it and bring it to her discretely.
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Maddie34
replied on May 1st, 2009
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No, seriously.

She can't get pregnant from wiped off precum!
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nickn313
replied on May 2nd, 2009
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hmmm...ok thanx guys! i feel quite relieved nw Smile Smile
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nickn313
replied on May 5th, 2009
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guys she feels damn hungry sometimes of the day though she has a heavy meal!!! since the past two three days....! is this a concern?? she even has stomach pain sometimes!!! and slight fever :O are these any symptoms?? a pregnancy test is sooo not possible Sad Sad as shes grounded and mom keeps a strict watch on her!! Sad
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Maddie34
replied on May 6th, 2009
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No. Wink

I have stomach pains sometimes and can, on occasion, eat like a cow-- I'm not pregnant. I promise that she cannot get pregnant from precum that you had already wiped off your finger.

If she has a fever then she may be a little sick. Try a pregnancy test after she's done being grounded-- it will make you feel better to see the negative. Smile
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nickn313
replied on May 6th, 2009
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well... she's got a kidney stone so probably its because of that? she gets back pains too sometyms... and she feels pukish ALL THE TIME ??!! though she hasnt thrown up.... but still! this is a big concern!! also her breasts pain if she presses it even a little...but she had this even before as she has cysts. but now the pain has increased!! OH god we'r just hoping she gets her periods... her last was on april 12th...so i suppose she'll get it my the 10th of this month... lets just hope she gets that... ! we'll be soo releived then
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nickn313
replied on May 8th, 2009
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just wanted to know for references...wat if my finger was damp with precum...?? Sad
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Maddie34
replied on May 8th, 2009
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It's still really unlikely.

Its sounds like she's got a lot of problems that could easily be causing symptoms-- and stress wouldn't be helping.

You both need to calm down and she needs to speak with a doctor if the pain is bad.

Now, have you started looking at birth control options or no?
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nickn313
replied on May 9th, 2009
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yesss.... but the next tym we wont ever do such a blunder!! well Maddie34...so you think its worthless worrying? Neutral we'r just a lil scared... hope she gets her periods soon Neutral the thing is shes chained at home...and not let out...moreoer its summer vacations now and we hav no college so cant meet for the next 1 month! Sad Neutral should we quit worrying? il keep you posted on everything... you seem to be the only person who could help me here Smile thanx a ton!!
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freaking_out
replied on May 9th, 2009
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I have a slightly different situation...
My boyfriend and I had sex and he never came that day but he had pre-cum. We always wear a condom and that day after he took his off I sat on his lap for a moment. He was rubbing against me though not inside me. He said he had peed once or twice after his last ejaculation. Do I have anything to worry about?
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nickn313
replied on May 10th, 2009
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guys! does white discharge hav anything to do with this? shes been having it for the last 5-6 months now but now she says the smell of it has changed a bit.. so does white discharge hav enything to dO?? thers no bleeding though...!! and she also feels ''slimy'' down there... anything to worry about?
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Maddie34
replied on May 10th, 2009
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She can take a pregnancy test now. And I really think that if she was THAT worried about it, then she'd be able to figure out how to get a test and take it-- with or without your help. She's 18 and a big girl now. Wink

Most women have discharge-- totally normal. But if its starting to smell then she may have an infection and that needs to be verified by a doctor who could also give a pregnancy test without notifying a parent. Plus, the infections could be caused by a variety of things, so it wouldn't be an issue for her to ask her mom (I'm just going to assume parents are an issue for you two) to help schedule an appointment for it.

None of her symptoms are really worth stressing over until she misses a period and after a pregnancy test.
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worrywart01
replied on May 10th, 2009
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just my personal opinion..if your THIS worried about things such as this...ALWAYS have a condom on hand so that it isn't a problem and theres no question that you were well protected...make sure you properly store the condom so that it isn't as likely to break
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