Most of the symtoms you describe would seem to indicate some kind of nerve compression or possibly interfereence to the nerves from the jelly that oozes out of the disks when they are herniated. The curve in your spine indicates you have scoliois, this could be responsible for some of your pain, but your doctors may not acknowlege this, though i dont know the degree of your curveture, the bigger the curve the worse the symptoms.
A disk herniation is something that often requires surgery, but there are many reasons why surgery might not be performed on a herniated disk such as the health of the disks near the herniation, if they fuse the herniated one the added stess on the adjacent disks can cause a them to herniate, so in many instances a herniated disk is not a cause for an operation.
Good luck schoc